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My Best Selling Courses

  • For Couples
    Strengthening Your Relationship

    Strengthening Your Relationship

    Join this course to understand the recurring and unsatisfying patterns in your marriage as well as actionable steps you can take to heal your divisions, create more peace, and experience more joy together.

    Join this course to understand the recurring and unsatisfying patterns in your marriage as well as actionable steps you can take to heal your divisions, create more peace, and experience more joy together.

  • For Couples
    Enhancing Sexual Intimacy

    Enhancing Sexual Intimacy

    Join this course to understand the underlying causes of sexual dissatisfaction, overcome barriers to sexual and relational openness, and participate in exercises that increase your capacity and desire for intimacy.

    Join this course to understand the underlying causes of sexual dissatisfaction, overcome barriers to sexual and relational openness, and participate in exercises that increase your capacity and desire for intimacy.

  • For Women
    The Art of Desire

    The Art of Desire

    Join this exceptional course to understand and challenge cultural false traditions that inhibit sexual desire, while learning a new, life-expanding perspective on desire and its relationship to your personal development and self-confidence.

    Join this exceptional course to understand and challenge cultural false traditions that inhibit sexual desire, while learning a new, life-expanding perspective on desire and its relationship to your personal development and self-confidence.

  • For Men
    The Art of Loving

    The Art of Loving

    Join the Art of Loving course, designed for LDS men, to challenge conflicting cultural messages that inhibit your capacity for love, intimacy and sexual integrity.  With these powerful concepts, you will address your role in unsatisfying sexual interactions while becoming a more open-hearted, desirable spouse.

    Join the Art of Loving course, designed for LDS men, to challenge conflicting cultural messages that inhibit your capacity for love, intimacy and sexual integrity.  With these powerful concepts, you will address your role in unsatisfying sexual interactions while becoming a more open-hearted, desirable spouse.

  • For Parents
    How To Talk To Your Kids About Sex

    How To Talk To Your Kids About Sex

    Join this course to become a wiser mentor to your children around their God-given sexuality.  Each lesson helps you teach your child navigate internal and external sexual pressures while remaining true to their highest values, at each developmental stage. 

    Join this course to become a wiser mentor to your children around their God-given sexuality.  Each lesson helps you teach your child navigate internal and external sexual pressures while remaining true to their highest values, at each developmental stage. 

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What participants are saying...

My life and marriage has changed incredibly for good. Recently my husband teared up in bed because he was so overwhelmed and happy with how our relationship is moving forward. ... Bless him. It has taken me 38 years to choose him, and to own my sexuality. This happened surprisingly quickly once true principles were introduced to me. Those life-changing events came through you and the course I signed up for. Life is good. I don't know how to thank you.

— R.L.

I want to say thank you so much for the work you are doing.  It has blessed my life in ways that I feel incapable of expressing.  The changes I have had to make have not been easy, but they feel worthwhile and purposeful.  All of my relationships are healthier in great part from the things I have learned from your classes and podcasts.  My "frame" for looking at the world, and parenting, and marriage and God have changed drastically.  It has caused me to confront my limitations and the limitations of others in a way that has been incredibly freeing.  Thank you for all that you do.

— H.L.

I just wanted to write and thank you for developing these programs. My wife and I finished your Relationship Course and are currently listening to your Sexuality Course. We are celebrating 14 years of marriage in March.  I can honestly say I have never felt closer to my wife. We had massive breakthroughs while taking your Relationship Course. I was able to identify my losing strategies and my wife has finally given herself fully to me, no more walls. These last few weeks have been some of the best of our marriage. We are finally communicating honestly and openly. Thank you again! You have two new fans!

— A.H.

...For the first time I'm starting to see myself in a more real way and it hurts and is sobering, but it's also the first time I've really felt like 1) I know what's going on, and 2) what I can do about it. Those two conundrums eluded me for many years. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge with us, and for being a real person when training us.

— J.C.

I bought three of your courses a couple months ago and they have changed my life and without question saved my marriage.

— O.V.

We just finished your two couples courses last week. They have been remarkably helpful to us. When my wife purchased them, I was skeptical. I just told her yesterday that this was the best money we've ever spent. Thank you so much for your insight and wisdom. Your work has made a huge difference in our marriage, and we are grateful.

— K.J.

What an an amazing talent you have of framing sex, sexuality, and sexual relationships in a positive way that empowers me and gives me hope and courage to teach my children about sex in a way that will bless and enrich their lives. Based on the things I have learned from this course I have already changed the dynamics of my conversations with my children.

— K.H.H.

I purchased the Relationship Course this December and have been thrilled with the material presented.  The classroom format is fantastic. ... Jennifer invites an honesty that has helped me shift in an area that I have felt overwhelmingly stuck. There is goodness in this course that has influenced me to see, be, and do better.  Thank you.

— J.M.

Thank you for developing this class and making it available.  I've been talking about it to my friends and encouraging them to check out your courses and workshops.  I am really learning so much and am so grateful.

— E.K.

I just wanted to say thank you for all that you do to teach people about having better relationships and being their best selves. I have never listened to an expert before that I hung on every word and have never once thought "that is close but a little off from what I think is true." I feel like I am a better person and better disciple as I listen to your podcasts. Thank you!!!!!

— V.E.

Upcoming Workshops

  • For Women
    The Art of Desire: Workshop for LDS Women in Dallas, Texas!

    The Art of Desire: Workshop for LDS Women in Dallas, Texas!

    April 8 - 9, 2021 Dallas, TX

    The “Art of Desire” Workshop challenges cultural false traditions around sexuality and selfhood, while offering you a wiser, life-expanding understanding of desire and its relationship to your personal development.  

    This two-day experience will facilitate deeper integration of your sexuality as well as greater confidence with sexual expression.  


    The “Art of Desire” Workshop challenges cultural false traditions around sexuality and selfhood, while offering you a wiser, life-expanding understanding of desire and its relationship to your personal development.  

    This two-day experience will facilitate deeper integration of your sexuality as well as greater confidence with sexual expression.  


  • For Women
    The Art of Desire Retreat in Oregon

    The Art of Desire Retreat in Oregon

    May 3 - 6, 2021 Scholls Valley Lodge, OR

    The Art of Desire retreat is a challenging, fun, and life-changing 3-day event! 

    This immersive experience will give you a new understanding of your desires, sexuality, spirituality, and self that will open up entirely new possibilities and foster greater self-confidence in all realms of your life.

    The Art of Desire retreat is a challenging, fun, and life-changing 3-day event! 

    This immersive experience will give you a new understanding of your desires, sexuality, spirituality, and self that will open up entirely new possibilities and foster greater self-confidence in all realms of your life.

  • For Couples
    Two-Part Couples' Retreat In Jackson Hole! 2021

    Two-Part Couples' Retreat In Jackson Hole! 2021

    October 21 - 27, 2021 Jackson Hole, WY

    Attend our exceptional couples' retreat in Jackson, Wyoming this Spring (2021)!  Join Dr. Finlayson-Fife from in late October (dates tentative) for a life- and marriage-transforming experience!  

    During this immersive experience, you will understand what interferes with friendship and passion in your relationship, and which steps you can take to create meaningful and lasting change!

    Attend our exceptional couples' retreat in Jackson, Wyoming this Spring (2021)!  Join Dr. Finlayson-Fife from in late October (dates tentative) for a life- and marriage-transforming experience!  

    During this immersive experience, you will understand what interferes with friendship and passion in your relationship, and which steps you can take to create meaningful and lasting change!


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Latest Podcasts

  • How to Fix Your Relationship With a Partnership Mindset

    Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Jeff and Sheldon of the Idea Gym podcast to talk about... ✔️ The foundational structure of an intimate marriage. ✔️ How to participate in a marriage where both partners thrive. ✔️ How to come to peace with our desires (both sexual and otherwise). ✔️ The importance of honesty with yourself and within your marriage in creating a peaceful partnership. ✔️ The difference between intimacy and validation. AND MORE!

    Idea Gym
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  • What to Do When You Hate Sex

    In this podcast Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Monica Packer of the About Progress podcast to discuss -How to stop hating sex -How to make sense of your negative feelings towards physical intimacy. -The importance of sexual self-development in your personal confidence. -The importance of pleasure in living joyfully.

    About Progress
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  • Sexuality & Happiness, A Positive View of Sex and Sexuality

    Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Andy Proctor of the @morehappylife podcast to discuss… -How parents can better talk to their kids about sexuality and pleasure (without embarrassment). -The gift of human embodiment and sensuality. -How people who experience themselves as addicted to sex can take more control of their choices. -How to think about sexuality as a religious single person in a way that facilitates your well-being.

    More Happy Life
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